BC for beginners

 

BC for beginners

 


I am not a medical doctor and I suggest you must talk all your concerns with your primary doctor / OB-GYN / parents.

Although hormonal birth control options are great in nearly all cases, using them correctly can require a bit of planning. Starting birth control can bring about all sorts of bodily changes, and whatever method you choose needs to be used regularly in order to work properly.

 

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends parents talk to their adolescents about how not having sexual intercourse is the best way to prevent STIs, HIV infection and pregnancy. However, these discussions should also address reliable contraception options.

Pediatricians start talking about sexual behaviors, birth control, and ways to prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) at about the 11-year-old checkup. They can provide or prescribe contraception in the office or give referrals to other resources in the community.

 

The only foolproof approach to sexual safety, of course, is to say “no” and defer sexual activity until later in life. The good news is that as many as half of all adolescents do just that. But that leaves the other half at risk — many of them engaging in unprotected sex, exposing themselves to potentially grave disease and unwanted pregnancy.

The most important thing to teach your child is responsibility. Discuss how to make decisions and understand what the consequences of decisions will be. You can start by discussing decisions and consequences that don’t involve sex, and then move the conversation toward sexuality. After all, there are consequences to having sex or not having sex, and every child is going to get a lot of misinformation along the way from their peers and the media.

 

Contraceptives help protect people from getting pregnant and from catching infections during sexual activity. It is important for all adolescents to learn about contraception, so they have information they'll need to make safe and healthy decisions.

 

Prevention of STIs

The best way for teenagers to prevent STIs is to not have sexual intercourse. They should understand that when they choose to have sex, it is a decision that could affect them for the rest of their lives. Teenagers need to know that having sex could lead to pregnancy or an STI. Be certain that your teenager understands the risks. For example, make sure she knows that acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS), which is caused by human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), is a leading cause of death in people aged 15 to 24 years. The presence of other STIs such as chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhea, and syphilis can increase the chance of getting an HIV infection. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, people with STIs have at least 2 to 5 times the risk of acquiring HIV through sexual contact.

Sexually transmitted infections can also cause pelvic inflammatory disease in women (an infection of the uterus and fallopian tubes) and epididymitis in men (inflammation of the coiled tube beside the testes). Complications from STIs can lead to infertility or an ectopic pregnancy (a fertilized egg that grows outside the womb). If a woman is pregnant, an STI can infect her baby.

Teenagers may face peer pressure to have sex. They need to understand that they can resist that pressure, and it’s OK to wait to have sex. Remind your teenager that saying “no” may not be easy at times but saying “no” today is better than doing something she will regret tomorrow. Provide some guidance on what your teenager can say without hurting the feelings of her date, such as

  • “I like you a lot, but I’m just not ready to have sex.”
  • “You’re really fun to be with, and I wouldn’t want to ruin our relationship with sex.”
  • “You’re a great person, but sex isn’t how I prove I like someone.”
  • “I want to wait until I’m married to have sex.”

 

Also, let your teenager know that using alcohol or drugs can affect her ability to make a good decision. Drugs and alcohol make it more difficult to remain firm about the choice to wait to have sex. Even sexually active teenagers might try high-risk sexual behaviors while drinking alcohol or using drugs.

 

You must consider frequency of your encounters and effectiveness to choose your best option.

 

I’ve seen how using the T (copper) with out ever been pregnant and it is extremely painful and harming. Even though in this time and age the medical community suggests its use in young women.

 

On the other hand, using a method that eliminates periods for long periods of times has its set back. The function of having periods is cleansing the body of the ovule that wasn’t “used” to have a baby and all the tissue and buildup the body does to prepare for it. So, by eliminating this process you’re telling the body to stop doing it. If it’s long enough and then you want to start  it again to have family there is a risk that your body won’t have the ability of reversing the years of not wanting to get pregnant.

it’s a coin in the air.

My niece is using a more natural way which is https://www.annovera.com/about together with condoms.

Men should be responsible and proactive too. Talking this over is part of being partners.

I truly suggest talk this over with your partner and do your research.

It’s a huge responsibility to be using birth control.


Most teens, whether they are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or straight, are not sexually active. In fact, not having sex is the only way to be completely protected against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). But if you choose to have sex, make sure you know the risks and how to stay safe.

  • Always use a condom. HIV, AIDS, and many other diseases are spread during anal, vaginal, or oral intercourse. Gay males and bisexuals must be particularly careful and should always use latex condoms to protect against these diseases. Lesbians should use latex dental dams to help avoid STIs.
  • Avoid risky sexual practices. Using alcohol and drugs before or during sex, having unknown sexual partners, or having sex in unfamiliar or public places can spread STIs and other serious health problems or lead to unwanted pregnancies.
  • See your doctor. Regular checkups are important to make sure you stay healthy. They are also a great opportunity to talk with your pediatrician about any questions or concerns you have about STIs or other health issues. If you’re more comfortable talking by phone or a video call, ask if they offer telehealth visits.
  • Make sure all of your immunizations are up to date. Check that you have had 3 doses of the hepatitis B vaccine. Hepatitis B is a virus that can make you very sick. It can be spread through contact with body fluids.

These are other resources for you to look at:

 https://www.nurx.com/birthcontrol/ 

https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/Birth-Control-for-Sexually-Active-Teens.aspx

https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/sexually-transmitted/Pages/Sexually-Transmitted-Infections-Prevention.aspx

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/stds-birth-control-pregnancy/what-do-i-need-know-about-birth-control

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/jul/18/women-dont-need-to-bleed-why-many-more-of-us-are-giving-up-periods

https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/teen/dating-sex/Pages/Health-Concerns-for-Gay-and-Lesbian-Teens.aspx

 

Birth Control Method Comparison Chart
This chart was created by CedarRiverClinics.org. in the state of Washington.
If you go to the website birth-control-comparison.info you can get more information on each method. On their website, clicking on the name of the method gives extensive information about use, pros/cons, side effects and more.



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